Made my breakfast on my own


Whilst my good lady tok her 83 year old mother shopping I got dressed came downstairs on my own and took my medication plus making my breakfast for the first time in years.

Keep on trucking everyday very fatigued but satisfied.

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@mrfrederickson

Another step in the right direction. Your banana chopping skills look spot on, tasty breakfast, I bet.

Keep on keepin’ on
:writing_hand: :smiley: :+1:

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Yes Bobbi I split the banana a cut it on the worktop then flipped the slices into the bowl.
Sense of satisfaction and cheered my wife up as she sees my independence growing.

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Well done @mrfrederickson you’re making great progress. I bet it was very satisfying eating your breakfast afterwards

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Great achievement :clap:. Another step on the road to recovery. Well done you. Thanks for sharing, always good to hear of achievements.

Keep on keeping on.
Regards 3

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Thanks Susan,
Really down to determination and stamina today plus proving to myself that I’m capable, maybe next time illl be walking better and have two working arms

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Trying do all the natural things you used to do is the best form of therapy.
Nothing should be seen as failure as every little thing a stroke survivor does is a success in the right direction … and they’re all cause for celebration :partying_face: :partying_face: :partying_face: :clap: :clap: :clap:

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Well done that’s so good, really happy for you bet your wife is very proud of you!:+1:

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mrf, You doing really well. Just keep on, small step by small step, and you will find you made a giant leap, Moira :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hi Elle yes she was it takes pressure off her over concerns about my independence.

More will power than recovery. I was very tired after , two fridge trips an into the dining room to get my meds. I had little breathers in between to extend my capabilities and devised a new way of cutting up the banana one handed. Biggest annoyance was not having a knife in the draw, had to raid the dishwasher.

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It goes some way to repaying the life debt I owe her. It Give s me greater peace.

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My husband still does most of the cooking for our children, we just kind of fell into new roles after my strokes, I am edging my way back in though! Multi tasking is the hardest thing after stroke, well done.

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@mrfrederickson

Don’t get too good at it MrF or she’ll be running you down the market with a ticket pinned to your sleeve, reading;

“Slightly used husband for sale, can look after himself, £0.99 or near offer.”

I bet she’s proud of you really,
:grinning:

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Yes Bobbi off loading me will cut her workload dramatically so I hope that my new found capabilities will be used more frequently.

Seriously though I’m glad my independence in the short term is proven if I get my left limbs back and working it can only improve

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Well done, small steps add to real progress.

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Yes so she says I always keep trying to improve and get back what I lost so it means we get our old life back but it’s just not quick enough for me.

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@mrfrederickson Good for you. How about a wee sprinkle of cinnamon on that?

Very healthy: What…no black pudding? lol

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Thanks Outlander, I do add honey and two sprinkles of chia seeds

A very hearty well done! :slight_smile:

Now you’ve done it once I suggest trying to build it into your regime .

For some months I’ve been using washing my left armpit as an exercise. Initially I couldn’t get my arm there then I could get my arm there but not open my fingers then I could get my arm there and almost over my fingers but not with enough dexterity to hold the slippery soap and this morning yes this morning I managed to cup the soap with my hand without my fingers curling up and forcing the soap to the floor .

Your breakfast and meds marks a milestone. It also establishes the launch pad for moving onwards. I wouldn’t be at all surprised if this new capability didn’t have its roots in your car washing and detailing and chip preparing exploits of the last few weeks. Neuroplasticity doesn’t - I think in my non-medically trained but researched in other fields opinion - respond so well to highly repetitive exercise. It likes continuous use in a variety of contexts that reinforce the need for a mental component as well as the physical .

I’m encouraged in my own recovery to hear about your progress. Keep on publicising please

Ciao

Simon

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Only us strokies know how good that feels, well done!

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