Hi @Mich-mm - Sorry you are feeling left out 
The link is at the very top.
You are more than welcome to join us anytime.
We have had people join and leave as they are entitled to do. The die hards are carrying on and we always welcome any new members.
If you do choose to join, please be warned we are extremely competitive and we take no prisoners 
This thread like any thread on this forum can be read and commented on by anyone who chooses to do so. Like all threads, it is purely voluntary - no one forces you to read it, no one forces you to comment on it. As far as I know we are in compliance with the membership rules and we are not adversely affecting anyone, nor are we having an impact on the performance of this forum and its membership.
I have no idea what this What’s Up thing you are referring to and I have social media accounts. This forum is my only link to the outside world and it is what might be called my social media account.
This forum has given me much support and relief from my role as a carer for a stroke survivor. I appreciate very much any feedback, guidance and support I get from those who choose to read and comment on my posts and in return I try to share my own personal experiences and views. I hope, and I cannot categorically state, that in doing so some also benefit from my comments/feedback at least as much of not more than I have done and continue to do.
I don’t believe I have [ever] acted in an aggressive, forceful or dictatorial manner and if I have it has never been my intention to do so. I would also add, that whilst I have replied to many many members’ posts, only a very small minority have taken exception to me commenting or joining their thread. On such occasions, I have respectfully apologised and stepped away from their threads. That is not to say I do not read them, but if I do, I simply do not join in or share my thoughts or comments.
I thank you for your comment and recommendation to create a What’s Up group but since I don’t know what it is, I cannot do that and in any case I am a technology dinosaur using an old laptap computer which is on it’s last legs. I keep getting messages saying the battery can no longer support your computer and it needs to be replaced or something like that. I have looked but I can’t see any batteries, so I have no idea how I will replace it. It may be that once the battery dies, with it will be my exit from the membership of this forum, a forum to which I shall eternally be grateful for it has done so much for me.
I am not sure you are being a party-pooper, rather you are simply sharing your views 
Welcome instructions to this party, which continues for now will be along soon 
Take care.
Namaste|
Habari.
