Stroke anniversary five years a survivor

Today five years ago I was waking up in hospital in a very different way from what had gone before. At 57 a young stroke patient but all baked in with a stressful situation job and family.

Luckily I survived and as with anniversaries reflections are not always b helpful.

I have reached a life which in the most part has been better than I thought but no where near my old self. I no longer work, hated the job anyway I’m attempting to return to driving after peripherals vision issues have repaired and getting a lot more NHS physio input including the chance of six weeks big hydro therapy which is golden.

I a still falling but not frequently thankfully as my stubborn left side attempts to work better.

My future is improving but not sure I’m where I want to be yet but at 62 still not gereatric

But trying to ensure the aging process doesn’t supersede my strok deficits.

The forum and all lovely acquaintances have been golden not sure I could hav got here without you all and you know who you are, much love and respect to you all.

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It’ll be 4 years for me next month after Valentine’s Day
and I’ll be 79 in April.

So I’m the youngster here? @mrfrederickson and you’re my 5 year old big brother?

I can live with that and have every intention of kicking out for a while yet.

You’re right they are a great crew on here.
I’ve received moral support and comfort when it has been needed and I too am very grateful for that.

It is almost Burn’s night so I suggest we all raise our glasses :disguised_face: in a toast to the great online community here.

:tumbler_glass: :grinning_face: :+1:

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Burns night toast! My brother in law who was Scottish used to invite us round of a Burns night meal. He died last year and sadly my sister preceded him by several years. Well done reaching your anniversaries! I am 75 and had my stroke in 2017 but only recently mastered the forum which I have found a great on line community.

May we have many more anniversaries!

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I’m sorry 57 is not young for stroke. Among the general public stroke is perceived as affecting the old, but most of us here know it can occur at any age. Also 5 years makes you a stroke baby.

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You have come a long way Mark & you will come even further. I am rooting for you to get that driving licence back & hope that opens many doors for you.

At 62 you are a mere babe & a long way off old age creeping up on you.

Raise a toast to your new life & look forward to hearing about more progress in 2026.

Ann

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Amen to that jennywren

Never give up hope, no surrender no retreat,

Eye of the tiger.

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Thanks Ann as have you!

We will see this to its end and like all good Viking warriors will toast our victory with mead in Valhalla :star_struck::star_struck:

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And I will be raising a glad to you all and my older brother Bobbi​:sweat_smile::sweat_smile:

CHEERS everyone!!!:zany_face::zany_face::zany_face::zany_face:

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Atta boy ! Keep your chin up !!

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Happy anniversary Mr. Mark.
I think you have done very well to get where you are now and you should keep chipping away.
Enjoy the hydro therapy - I am sure it will do you the power of good.
:clinking_beer_mugs:

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:+1: Great! very inspiring,here are all lovely people.meaningful having such a great forum!

Thanks

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Congratulations on your recovery so far. Long may it continue.

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Well done on all you have achieved of the last 5 years! :slight_smile:

Anna

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Thanks Anna onwards and upwards as they say may be year six will be my best yet and release Mee from mobility

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I am also almost 5 years out, still struggling to deal with it. I am 75. I miss my old life and my independence. Mine was a hemorrhagic cerebellar stroke.

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Hi mac327

I understand how you are feeling and have similar internal chats with myself about the loss of my past life

I would add that at the five year point my mobility as my wife pointed out to me is no better than it was three years ago ago just with more post stroke pain and falls keep happening.

Not as bright a future as I’d hoped for and possibly a plateau.

My dream of a physical break through is still a long way off from manifesting.

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Thank you for the feedback. Not everyone gets how I feel.

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Fly it is the lot of many of us in recovery, but we must take on the challenge and find a way through until we are in a better place

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Hi mac327

I understand how you are feeling and have similar internal chats with myself about the bospast life

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Thanks for getting it!

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