Panic checklist

I put together my own panic checklist after realising that most distressing symptoms subside, yet in the moment I forget that they will. I look at it when my weird symptoms strike and I can’t think straight. I also added some soothing thoughts for myself when it’s bad.
Hope this helps someone.
I needed it myself just today.

Stroke Don’t panic

-Pains in body - . Nerve issues. Will go away , Take paracetamol if necessary .

-Pins and needles , weird sensations in face. Will go away . Nerves regenerating.

-Head pains - nerves regenerating, take paracetamol if necessary.

-Visual issues - too much daylight/concentrating or digital eye strain - will ease.

All of these things will be worse after stress or illness, or if fatigued, dehydrated/hungry.

Soothing thoughts.

  1. “My body is healing and protected. I am doing what I need to , to stay well.”

  2. “This feeling is fear, not danger. I am safe right now.”

  3. “I trust my medication and my choices to support my health.”

  4. “I’ve survived hard things. I am stronger than this moment of fear.”

  5. “My thoughts are not facts. I can let this one pass.”

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What a good idea. You’re right that when you are in the moment you forget what you need to do to reduce that panic. Thank you for sharing.

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Aye, our thoughts are not facts, fight or flight is there to protect us but our mammalian brain can interpret this function erroneously, it’s a good list of self-soothing thoughts you have.

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Yes I forget every single time :woozy_face:

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Thank you for this. I have bookmarked it and will use it when I need to reframe my thoughts. :heart:

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Hi Gaina,
Glad to hear that it’s helpful :heart:. Hope you’re doing ok ?

Jeanette :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Thanks Rups
Yes the fight or flight is a bummer sometimes isn’t it :face_with_peeking_eye:

Jeanette :heart_eyes:

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Physically, I have made great progress. Mentally? I’m wrecked. The stroke has left me with anxiety and difficulty regulating my emotions.

On top of that, some neurodiverse traits I had before the stroke are now super-charged.

Thankfully, the occupational therapist I had on my stroke team is great and I’m on the waiting list to see the Neuropsychology team, so I expect to hear from them in late September.

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Thanks @Seddso, that’s really good advice. I’m new here, had a very mild TIA in February and grateful to have got away lightly, but have struggled to come to terms with it mentally. I will be putting your checklist to good use.

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Hi @harimanjaro

Just wanted to pop along and welcome you to the community. I’m sorry to hear about your TIA, any type of stroke is a lot to come to terms with so please be gentle with yourself during this time.

I’m pleased to see you’re already finding the community helpful. If you need anything whilst you’re using the Online Community, please don’t hesitate to tag me using the @ symbol and my username.

Anna

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Thanks @Anna_Moderator

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@harimanjaro also popping by to say hi & welcome to the community. If you need anything ask away & I am sure someone will be along with some advice.

Give yourself time to come to terms with what has happened. It is a big thing.

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Yes I totally understand. I’ve been an emotional wreck. Getting better but need lots of understanding from those around me. I found my therapists do helpful and my psychologist kept me sane. I hope you find them helpful too :heart_eyes:

J

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Hi @harimanjaro - Welcome to the community.

Wishing you all the best with your recovery from the TIA.

Namaste|
:pray:

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@Seddso only month since my stroke but ty needed to “hear this”

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Hello Ravyn, sorry to hear that. It’s very early days for you . I think the fear is something only us stroke survivors can understand. I felt crippled by it in the early days and was in constant fear of another trip to a&e. My psychologist and this group helped so much. But I still ( ten months post stroke - which I know is still early days in terms of stroke recovery) have days where I panic , hence my little list.
Hope each day gets a little easier for you :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:.

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ty it has helped me be mindful especially since “Ruby” the blood clot still has residency in my left ventricle

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I love this and it’s so relevant to me, I have thought all those things but seeing you write them down has made so much sense xx

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Even though my emotions were switched off after my stroke stroke, my mind wasn’t so awareness was ever present to every twinge or tingle or pain. But because of my emotional shut down, I had a chance to better able to analyse and rationalise just as you have listed above.

Now that emotions are switching back, its even more fascinating for me.
I can be happily sitting reading a book/watching tv and I will suddenly start to worry or feel anxious maybe even a moment of panic, and I wonder what the heck that was in aid of😅

So then I go through my mind to see if there was anything I’m meant to be concerned or worried about. Usually there’s nothing. So next I wonder what I may have consumed that could have triggered that attack, it may have been that carmel latte at Costa I today while out that spiked my sugar levels or the caffeine in it that’s raised my blood pressure a bit.

People do forget that what they consume can also trigger these emotions of stress, anxiety, panic and depression as well as the more positive motions. And it can be easier to track down to what you’ve consumed if these emotional episodes are on and off, if you go days or weeks even feeling just fine.

And once that negative emotion is awakened it needs something to feed off of in order to keep it alive. And the freshest food from us is our stroke! If that’s not sufficient it try something or create it’s food from nothing, it can just look at the telly and feed off that, the local gossip. If it’s desperate enough it will find food anywhere. To starve it out, you have to distract yourself. If you know this emotion has no grounds for being then you can easily get rid of it, it just takes practice!

The physical feeling when these emotions come on, the sensations of it, usually sit in the stomach, chest and the back of the throat, well, it usual does for me, and of course the head. To ease these sensations, take a deep breath in and blow out into an imaginary balloon a couple of times or however many it takes to rid yourself of that sensation.

At the same time, go do something else, because whatever you were doing gave it too much to fester and feed. Distraction is always the key. And this site is great for that, even I use it for that reason. Reading about and helping others with their real issues soon has me forgetting about my sudden bout of unexplainable anxiety. And even if know the root cause i.e. costa coffee, then I’m usually on here long enough for it to wear off and the negative emotion dies.

The mental process for doing something else has a whole new process to follow, like a train having turn around and go down a different track, it takes some doing. So the mind is freshly occupied with the new task in hand. That in itself may be enough to forget the anxiety, the panic or whatever, long enough to die. Poor short term memory can be an advantage for that too :wink: But I always practice these techniques even the emotion does have grounds for being. Nine times out ten either nothing can be done about it or it’s out of your hands, so all you can do is ride it out. So it’s a good practice to fall back on for those times; and I’ll do anything to keep my blood pressure down :sweat_smile:

Which brings me on to another root cause for these emotional spikes and blips. Is your blood pressure, and medication for it, being managed correctly. Panic attacks, anxiety, depression, mood swings, migraines, dizziness, etc, can all be brought on by high or low. Blood pressure is a viscous cycle, stress can be what brought on your high pressure and stroke, but high/low blood pressure can also trigger anxiety, depression, etc. It can be both the cause or the result of it!

Top of my mental check list (mentioned above) are to check both my blood sugar, as I’m type2 diabetic and blood pressure. They are so part of my routine I forget to mention them here, they’re just something I do so regularly anyway.
So if anyone has not questioned or had them checked to see whether they are working for you or not since you were put on them, then I’d advice you see your GP to review them and tell them why. It could be that they need to be increased/decreased or switch to a brand that works for you.

Lorraine

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Thanks @EmeraldEyes, some good insights there. Your reference to blood pressure struck a chord with me as for a while after my TIA I was overmedicated, with my blood pressure consistently low. Of course, after being told off for all of those high numbers you see the low ones as a small victory, but the light-headedness, general feeling of otherworldliness and (eventually) tachycardia said otherwise. I’d never linked it to the anxiety, but with hindsight I can see how it could well have been a factor.

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