Thank you for the lovely reply Janet.
Even though it's the worse reason to meet people I think I'd have gone mad without this site. Mum can kind of say yeah now and again and has said no very clear a couple of times.
Is your mum able to walk Janet? My mum is pretty much bed bound and needs the winch to go from chair to bed she has a tv in her room but won't have it on and I'm wondering if it's because it's too much for her brain to cope with?
It's mum's 88th birthday in February so will try the singing ?
Thank you again for the reply and thoughts are with you both
Andy