Hi Gaina - you could be opening a can of works here 
This subject has been discussed quite a few times on this forum and I am sure we can continue the discussion here. In case you haven’t searched, there are a few posts you will find if you search using “Emotional liability”
One discussion we had was back in March and got quite a few members chipping in. You might want to have a look at it - see link below.
You might want to get yourself a cuppa before you start to read it 
I hope this helps, but I know more will follow
