Hi @Poppy2013
Welcome to the community, I’m sorry to hear about your husbands stroke and the difficult situation you’re in.
My first suggestion would be to give our Stroke Support Helpline:0303 3033 100 if you haven’t already done so. They have a wealth of knowledge and will be able to talk you through the process of discharge and what sort of things need to be thought about during this time.
We have had some conversation on here about discharge which you may find helpful to read through, I’ve put a couple of them below. You can also use the 
in the top right hand corner to search for this topic - if you type in Discharge, lots of posts will come up which you can also read through.
Care at home - what can we expect? - About stroke / Discharge - Stroke Association Online Community
I know we’ve got some people within this community who have been through similar and I’m sure they’ll also be along soon to offer their advice on this too.
In the meantime if you need any help with the Online Community, please don’t hesitate to tag me using the @ symbol and my username.
Best wishes,
Anna