The first major hurdle is to survive the stroke.
I’ve seen people in hospital with me unable to achieve that, surrounded by grieving relatives. Obviously much loved but unable to keep hold on life.
Then there are those kept alive, on drips, fed by tube only able to grunt and moan, unable to move themselves, a distressing sight, yet cared for with great diligence around the clock. Relatives, shocked and helpless are witness to this with no assurance of what will be the outcome.
Things are not so dire but still pretty awful for others and their nearest and dearest. There are those also who seem to escape almost unscathed.
Stroke whether severe or not is a traumatic event with consequences that last for a long time. We deal with it as best we may, without guarantees but with hope for some sort of future.
To some extent, although it might not right all the wrongs, state of mind will affect the sort of journey we will experience. If that sounds a little trite I apologise and do recognise that sympathy has a place in all this.
These mountains to climb, obstacles to overcome etc etc are best shared. This forum is one place I value as a point of exchange for what we have to say.
I have a meal my wife and carer has put before me. Life must go on and I will finish here to consume what she has prepared for me.
Thank you for reading through what I have had to say
keep on keepin’ on
