Now 3 months since my first stroke and I have been recovering very well with no after effects apart from minor eyesight defects, but I woke up this morning with tingling and partial loss of use in my little and ring fingers in my left hand, I have not had any loss of dexterity in my limbs or hands for several weeks, so am disappointed at any backward step in my good progress, I expect that these setbacks are to be expected, but still disappointed all the same.
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I say, 2 steps forward…1 step sideways
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I didn’t know that 3-4 months was a known period for changes in progress, isthis a known or common issue, I was well pleased with my improvement until today, but if this is a common timeframe for changes, then why should I be any different?
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@Injebreck99 sorry to hear of your disappointment. If you have been increasing your activity levels there’s a chance you’re going through stroke decompensation. This is quite common as yiur brain is having to work extra hard to keep up with the additional activity.
If it is decompensation it should settle again as you get used to your new level of activity.
I understand the disappointment though.
Best wishes
Ann
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Many thanks for your kind and helpful words , every little reassurance helps understand things a bit better.,it’s a whole new experience for most of us, and being prepared in advance is helpful.
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Excellent advice as always @Mrs5K 
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Thank you @ManjiB thats very kind. Hope you’re keeping well.
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Hey Ann, @Mrs5K .
Yes, all fine but a bit tired. It’s been a long stint looking after Mum and sometimes a bit overwhelming. Recently I discovered new techniques to cope with the stresses of being a full time 24/7 carer.
I had to remind myself that I need to take care of myself if I am to take care of Mum.
Hopefully, things will run more smoothly henceforth. I can always pop into this forum for some inspiration and support
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You are absolutely right. If you don’t look after yourself you can’t look after your mum. Being a carer should never be underestimated. It’s a massive undertaking. I did aome care for my dad when he was poorly & it was exhausting. This was for a short period so I can only imagine how shattered you must be.
A big shout out to all the carers as we couldn’t do it without you.
Best wishes
Ann
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