Yes I’ve spoken to them about it. They do a meeting near me but the aphasia one if full I’m on the waiting list. I think they would really help him.
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I’m in the Greater Manchester area and the NHS here also run Speakeasy Aphasia groups, two of which are close me, though I’ve never been. I don’t know where you are but you could do an online search for aphasia groups in your area. I personally find you get a lot more out of in-person contact as you can’t help but form friendships and so meet ups outside of these groups socially. This in turn encourages you to speak more as you don’t have to be apologetic or embarrassed by the aphasia. And the more you talk the more your speech improves over time 
So don’t limit yourselves, you may find there are some other local stroke as well as aphasia groups not necessarily linked to Stroke Association, even try Age UK, you NHS, local council day care centres, etc.
Lorraine
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Please do not underestimate the significance of this.
Sleep to refresh is one of the most important things and possibly one that is overlooked.
Power naps are a brilliant way to refresh, but I must admit I have found it hard to do (power napping).
So pleased and your husband have had the best day since coming back home.
A glass of wine to celebrate is good 
Take care.
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That’s amazing. Sounds like it wasxa great day. Well done to your husband and well done to you too for letting him do it. I am sure you worried about him hurting himself.
If he is doing all this after 14 weeks just imagine what he could be doing in another 14 weeks. There will likely be some days where things aren’t so good but don’t be disheartened by ttem as it is perfectly normal in the recovery process. As you move forward there should be more good than bad days.
Don’t worry about him needing a nap after doing things. This is the body’s way of getting him to rest as he needs to. A way to help manage fatigue and help his brain doing its repair work.
I am sure his speech will continue to improve. Cutting the sessions down to 45 mins is probably a good idea as he will find it exhausting. I could speak after my stroke but found holding a conversation was one of the most exhausting things I could do.
Good to hear you have sought help with your anxiety & the counselling will hopefully help you get it more under control.
It sounds like things are going well do far.
Best wishes
Ann
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Hello @Lynne26
It is so early to tell if and when he might get better. 3.5 yrs on, I still have aphasia/dyspraxia and my toilet habits is potluck.
But, after 6 months, my wife then took stock on her journey and said “do I love him anymore?” That powerful question haunts me even to this day.
But, the answer is yes, she does. She witters about doing more exercise, or writing, or practicing my voice etc but the love has been my greatest asset.
M
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Both when I had my hip replaced and later a broken ankle, I used to come down stairs on my bum.
I had a low stool at the top of the stairs to sit down on sideways. I’d then swivel around to face the stairs, put my feet on next step down then slide my bum down to the top step. Then continue on down.
You also have the advantage of 2 bannisters for him to hold onto. And I was younger and more able bodied back then. But it might be worth giving it a try.
Lorraine
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My mum has the type of stroke similar to your husband. I’m glad to see he’s been cared for at home. I am having no such luck as my mum is stuck in a care home (against her wishes and mine) in Salford. I live in Wythenshawe, Manchester. With you and your family by your side, he’ll have lots of support. I’ve been a carer (until recently) for 30+yrs (since I was a kid) it can be very difficult at times but, it can be rewarding. A lot of patience will be needed as you’ll need to adopt many roles (i.e. cooking, cleaning, dealing thing on your husbands behalf). I’m happy to loan you advice if you need it. 
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Thank you so much is it ok if I pm you
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If you like. I’ve no problem with that 
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Thank you I will do that
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@Lynne26 , no problem.
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Hugs and prayers to you both
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@Jstabrit , my best wishes to you. 
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My partner says half 2 alot